According to Hartford's WFSB, Republican state Rep. Mike Bocchino now says that the remarks are being taken out of context.
He was responding to a Democratic-sponsored bill that would require both parties to consent to sex by saying "yes" before engaging in intimate contact. Advocates of the law hope to curb sexual assaults and clarify the lines of consent in order to address the problem of rape and sexual assault on college campuses.
Bocchino was raising what he said is an issue with both parties stating their consent. Who is to believe their stories, he asked, if there are no other witnesses?
"No question that sexual assault is a horrific thing. No question that date rape things that happen on college campuses are disgusting," the lawmaker said.
But, he said, "Because at the end of the day, there are no witnesses...or at least if there are, it's a really great party."
College student Emily Tourgeman, who attended the hearing, said, "I think that is so rude. I don't understand how someone in that high of a position, someone who is supposed to be in the public eye in a positive way, can make a degrading comment. That's a really childish comment."
State Democrats reacted with disgust. In a statement released Tuesday, a party spokesperson said, "I assume that it was an attempt at humor, but Rep. Bocchino should know better — and his constituents elected him to know better. Campus sexual assault is not a joke. It affects both genders, but up to one in five female students are victims. It's a serious problem, and I hope Rep. Bocchino publicly apologize for his distasteful and offensive comment."
A spokeswoman for the state Republican Party said that in spite of his comments, Bocchino voted in favor of the consent bill.
Reader Comments
Yes, unless you videotape it or get the person to sign a sex contract agreeing to have sex with you (pretty much what has to be done now). How else can it be verified without witnesses? It's always been he said she said. I don't know what these drunk horny college students expect is going to happen. Good judgement and alcohol don't usually lead to good decision making for anyone. Rape shouldn't happen but at the same time if you don't protect yourself no one else is going too. Guard your drink, find out if some pervert is going to be at the party and avoid him/her. Stick with your friends and have a sober one around at all times (my mother taught me these things and I've never had an incident). Realise that sadly no you can't trust people and even less so when they have been drinking. I think this boils down to people thinking they live in a magical world where bad things don't happen (or it can't happen to them anyway), and they think that they don't have to take any responsibility for their own safety.