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Not every person who contemplates killing themselves is truly interested in ending their time on earth. For many, suicidal thoughts are about escape - musing about the idea of leaving the bonds that bind them to other people, responsibilities to burdens, and the despair of what they can't change. If they could just escape it, maybe they still could go on somehow. Not right now, but after a while. They just need to get away from it.
Suicidal thoughts and actions are also sometimes paired with strong impulses and low inhibitions. This can happen with drugs and alcohol, bipolar disorder, or any personality style that leans more toward action than consideration. When a depressed or desperate mood gets legs, a person could be in real physical danger.
These are all fictional examples, but you can see how impulse plus mood problems can equal suicide.
* A person in despair over a broken relationship sits on the train tracks where the train traffic is regular. They've had several beers and are feeling everything so strongly.Many people each day are walking around with enormous amounts of emotional pain. Living is difficult, they've lost loved ones, the future looks bleak, and they feel backed into a corner. But not everyone contemplates suicide. Some hold very strong religious beliefs that prevent them from ever taking any action. Others hold an important value on life in general, and can tell themselves that there has to be another way.
* A person with rapidly shifting moods has had a lot of problems lately. They are driving in their car and are thinking about what would happen if they slammed into a wall or tree.
* A person who's had trouble in the public eye and a history of depression and drug use. They become sick of the daily emotional roller coaster, grab their gun, and load up a few bullets.
Sadly, many people do have very scary thoughts about ending their life. Some come very close to the brink of action before pulling back. Others only have fleeting thoughts. The "invasion" of depression into a person's mind can make difficult things seem much more than just difficult - they become impossible.
They see no reason to live on after their spouse has died. They see no way out of their financial troubles. They think there is no more purpose for them after their serious injury or illness. This black and white thinking can trap a person into a narrow chute, seeing their demise as they only reasonable choice. And I'm not saying that the pain isn't real or extremely intense. It's the thought process and judgment that balances emotion, and depression thinking just isn't straight.
For any of you who have been down this path, I invite you to add on comments and expand on this little post. There's no way a few hundred words can do justice to the topic except to introduce it. If you are feeling strongly about suicide and don't feel safe, I urge you to contact your local police or hospital right away. They are well trained to help you get through your difficult time and get you the help you need.
And for those I have known who have taken their own lives, your deaths have made a lifelong impression on me.
I can relate to many of the sentiment stated in the article above. There is many a time I think I am worthless and only a burden to my loved ones that if I was dead it would be a relief to them. I don't know how many times my husband has talked me down from something like that.
Many people that "know" me are surprised at that, they see me as a bubbly, if slightly twisted, person. They don't see the what is going on inside. I have been diagnosed Bi-polar type 2, and I have fibromyalgia which just adds to the depression.
It is strange sometimes I just have thoughts of slitting my wrists just to see how it would feel. I always seem to wimp out at the last minute. To me it is a weakness that I just can't kill myself, but I suppose to other people it is a good thing.