She screams: "You are forcing me, you are forcing me."
The 10-minute cellphone video spread like wildfire until a tabloid paper alerted police on April 17. (Disclaimer: This reporter has not watched the video or searched for it online because it is child pornography. Officials have not said how many people have seen the video. Police have arrested suspects in the case.)
This is shocking. But in South Africa, it's less shocking than you might expect. A study (pdf) from the Medical Research Council found that more than 1 in 4 South African men have admitted to raping a girl or woman. More than 56,000 rapes were reported (pdf) to police, but the government group suspects that the actual incidence of rape is 25 times that number. That's 1,400,000 people -- roughly the population of Phoenix -- each year. By comparison, the U.S. Census Bureau said in 2012 that there were some 81,000 rapes or attempted rapes (pdf) in the U.S. in 2009, the last year for which the bureau gives figures -- in a country with more than six times the population of South Africa.
More worrying, the MRC's research into gender violence stretches back years, and it doesn't show that attitudes have changed much. Back in 1998 the group warned ominously (pdf) that "there needs to be a change in attitudes amongst all members in the community toward the 'normality' and inevitability of male use of force in relationships involving people of all ages."
The video drew condemnation from Lulu Xingwana, South Africa's minister for women, children and people with disabilities -- but her comments seemed to focus more on the evidence than on the crime. "This despicable crime does not belong to our free and democratic society," said Xingwana in a statement. She then reminded all South Africans that "distributing pornographic material is a criminal offense."
But women's-rights advocates say that this is not a lone incident and that the blame traces back to South Africa's potent history of repression. Lisa Vetten, executive director of the Tshwaranang Legal Advocacy Centre, says that the position of women has not improved despite South Africa's post apartheid laws.
South Africa has one of the world's most progressive constitutions. It's one of a handful of nations that allow gay marriage and the only one in Africa that does so. Marital rape has been illegal since 1996, but the first conviction came only this year.
"Women occupy a very contradictory position," Vetten says, pointing to relatively high levels of female representation in business and government. "On paper, there is constitutional recognition of women's equality. But in terms of the day-to-day circumstances of women, not much has improved. It's not uncommon to hear, 'Women have too many rights; they're abusing them.' Things have changed on paper, but it hasn't facilitated a real change in thinking."
Consider an unrelated event that happened just days after the horrifying video was brought to light: The country's president married for the sixth time, bringing his count of current wives up to four. Jacob Zuma, now 70, is thought to have at least 20 children -- and has said that not all of them are by his current or former wives. Polygamous marriages are allowed for indigenous South Africans whose ethnic groups support multiple marriages. However, they are not common in urban areas or among young South Africans.
No one is suggesting that the president is responsible for the young girl's rape. (In 2005 he was charged with and acquitted of raping an HIV-positive family friend. His accuser was later granted asylum in the Netherlands; he went on to become president in 2009.) Yet with the head of state claiming four wives, the mentality at the top is clear: One man is equal to four women.
"There's the notion that sex is a masculine entitlement," Vetten says. "When men have multiple partners, that's one way of expressing that sense of sexual entitlement ... When you have a society that's been as unequal as ours, along gender lines as well as race and class, it takes a long time to change that."
Vetten says that rape statistics have been rising in South Africa since the 1980s and that without significant social engagement, attitudes won't change. But in this world of social media, the disturbing trends are becoming harder to ignore.
"It's not the first time there's been a video where someone has filmed an act of violence and sent it out," Vetten says. "What I find disturbing is why people want to watch it ... The question I'm asking is, who are they identifying with when they're watching that video? Are they identifying with the young men or are they identifying with the victim?"
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