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Intuition's important role in guiding our decisions

The intuition's most important role is that it alerts us to the path, people, and circumstances that we will uniquely find fulfilling.

Our intuition will tell you intimate and important things nobody else will—and it will also tell you things your own mind will argue with. As a culture, we have learned to believe that being rational is what should prevail when making decisions. But what about our "inner voice," our gut feeling—that "little something" instinctual from within, which tells us how we feel beneath those layers of logic?

Intuition can be either a moment where you instinctively know if something IS right—or isn't right. It's our inner voice that "that just knows," and it does understand what uniquely, sometimes seemingly illogically, will make you happy. It bridges the gap between between instinct and reason, between the conscious and unconscious mind.

Science tells us that only 20 percent of the brain's gray matter is used for conscious thoughts, while 80 percent is dedicated to non-conscious thoughts.



How to move through pain and feeling stuck

Are you stuck in some area of your life? In your business, relationships, weight, confidence... do you feel like you're looking for the missing piece to finally shift it? Do you think you may be the one causing yourself pain? Are you finally fed up and done?

Good. You're right on track. You've hit resistance. You have a subconscious "block." When I start with a new client, every single one has one. Think of a roadblock, like when the road is under construction and you have to take a detour. You must create a new path when you hit the personal road block. It can feel like a setback, but wherever you are is perfect. Start here.

Always remember that your subconscious doesn't want you to change. Change signals possible danger, the unknown, and we are hard-wired to resist it. It's trying to keep you safe, but you are pushing the edge of your comfort zone and now it's unbearable. This is where you create your own pain. All it takes is willingness to change and practice.

Comment: The Éiriú Eolas breathing and meditation program is a technique for calming the mind and emotions, and will also help you to focus, thus creating better links between your body and mind. It will also help you to heal emotional wounds; anything that may hinder or prevent you from leading a healthy and fulfilling life.


The surprising benefits of feeling blue

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An emotion that prompts people to cry, lose appetite and withdraw from the world, might have actually been crucial to our survival.
After the British painter Samuel Palmer lost his 19-year-old son in 1861, he called the death "the catastrophe of my life." In a letter to a friend, he described the anguish:

"I dreamed one night that dear More was alive again and that after throwing my arms round his neck and finding beyond all doubt that I had my living son in my embrace - we went thoroughly into the subject, and found that the death and funeral at Abinger had been fictitious. For a second after waking the joy remained - then came the knell that wakes me every morning - More is dead! More is dead!"

Palmer's tragedy probably resonates with anyone who has known loss. Sadness, from the profound grief of a parent to transient moodiness of a child, is a universal emotion. It also, on its face, doesn't make a great deal of sense.

Comment: Sadness seems to serve an evolutionary purpose and is not something to be medicated away.


Tips for overcoming obsessive thinking

A few years ago I remodeled my kitchen. Having to make that many decisions is an overthinker's nightmare. If you've ever remodeled, you know that it's one decision after another — fixtures, appliances, countertops, paint. Do you even know how many models of faucets are made?

People who overthink feel like their brains won't turn off. They are constantly questioning, second-guessing, and evaluating to the extent that they create analysis paralysis, or the inability to make decisions.

Overthinking is common among anxious perfectionists. It is obsessive thinking or ruminating. Sometimes you can't even decide something simple like what you want for dinner. Instead you say "I don't know" or "I don't care" and inevitably annoy your partner or friends because you never seem to have an opinion.

Comment: Another useful technique for calming the the mind and helping you to focus is the Eiriu Eolas stress reducing program. Getting adequate sleep can help diminish persistent intrusive thoughts as well.


Stalking: Using our mind's own voice to be free of the voice

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If we are relentless and impeccable about stalking ourselves, a result is that we leave the world and other people alone.

There is a very old tradition taught by indigenous elders from the Americas that trains us to use the voice of the mind to be free of the voice. The term these elders use for this process is called "stalking." It is understood that the word stalking has some negative connotations in our society. However, stalking is an honored part of this Medicine Way. These societies were hunter-gatherers: Just as they stalked animals for their energy, we have been taught to stalk the voice in the mind for its energy.

In stalking, we use three areas to assist us in finding energy. The first area is our thoughts: judgmental and critical, future or past, and self-pitying. The second place we look for energy is emotion: Am I having an emotional reaction to this person or event? The third area of awareness is physical: If I am unaware of my thinking or emotional responses I can almost always become aware of physical tension or upset in the body.


Beliefs that can help to transform negative emotions

Are you sad, anxious, managing a difficult relationship, grief or divorce? Are you feeling the stress of medical issues, parenting or work? Whatever difficulty we experience is made exponentially worse by how we talk to ourselves about those same experiences. Like flipping on a switch, changing the meaning you ascribe to life's hardships instantaneously short circuits the thoughts that breed negative emotions. Adopt these five beliefs to transform unhappiness to well-being.

1. Believe in Your Power to Challenge Your Difficulties: Do you wake up feeling daunted by life? Or, do you start your day in a good space only to stumble in the face of difficult news later or an unforeseen problem? And when that happens, do you feel like giving up? Do you tell yourself, "Ugh, this is impossible, I can't do it!" Self-efficacy is a term psychologists use to refer to how much a person believes in her ability to reach goals or tackle her life's problems. Your ability to believe you can persist in obtaining your goals and solving your problems -- including work issues, social issues, financial goals, healthy behaviors, workout and diet regimes -- is almost entirely dependent on your ability to persist in spite of setbacks. People who continue to persevere do so because they force themselves to believe deep down in their core, that if they hang in there long enough they will solve the problem at hand or meet their goal. So whatever you are managing that is hard on you today, start by telling yourself "I can handle this, even if I don't have all of the answers right now, I know I will find a way."

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Irrational decisions might be the result of quantum theory, mathematicians say

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New theory might be able to answer why humans make irrational and surprising decisions.
If you've ever made a decision that didn't make any rational sense, you might now have a great excuse for why. New research has taken a step forward in modelling human judgement and decision making using mathematics.

If you've ever seen the game show Golden Balls you will have watched judgements and decisions made with uncertainty and under conflict. Whether choosing to steal or to split, you have a risk of going home with nothing. Quantum theory may be able to explain the irrational decisions made on the show.

"Quantum cognition" may explain our decisions when we don't have a definite feeling about which option to choose or which decision to make, according to researchers at Indiana University and Ohio State University. Jerome Busemeyer and Zheng Wang propose that all options we could possibly make co-exist and have varying potential to be chosen. Once a choice is made, all other possible options no longer exist in our minds.


Feeling intense emotions doesn't mean you're crazy, it means you're human

"The thing about people who are truly and malignantly crazy: their real genius is for making the people around them think they themselves are crazy. In military science this is called Psy-Ops, for your info." - David Foster Wallace, Infinite Jest
When we utilize critical thinking and question whether what society tells us is true or not, we are called "paranoid." When a major tragedy strikes, we are conditioned to automatically accept what authority figures and the media tell us without question, lest we wish to be cast into the tainted demographic of society known as "conspiracy theorists" - basically, a manipulation of the term free-thinkers, insinuating a person's open mind is instead a psychologically deranged prison. When we feel sad, we put on brave faces like we were taught to do; and we certainly do not let others see us "break" down, as to do so would be socially unacceptable. We fail to realize this, in reality, is the very definition of weakness. The truly brave thing to do would be to embrace and listen to our feelings, otherwise known as embracing our innate human nature. Rarely do we consider that by repeatedly denying ourselves the opportunity to "break" down and feel our emotions in their entirety, we are simultaneously sealing our fate to break down on a chronic basis in the future, as the accumulated negative energies within us from our repressed emotions will eventually reach full capacity and burst.


Researchers show that dwelling on the past negatively impacts self control in the present

Fear, anger, uncertainty, discomfort, shame, guilt and many other emotions we perceive as negative are often our compass towards growth. It is our resistance to our past and our interpretation of how our experiences should have manifested which define our expectations for the future. How people remember past behavior affects their choices in the present, according to a new study that suggests the relationship between recall and self-control is more complicated than previously believed.

Research on self-control often suggests recollecting past mistakes as a way to avoid making them again. For example, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends that people with food addictions reflect on past lapses to keep from overeating. But Vanderbilt University professor Kelly Haws thought there might be more to the story, so she and her team designed several studies to test the nuances of recall. Haws and colleagues found that focusing on past behaviors is not always a good idea.


Empathy: Being comfortable sitting with another persons pain

I learned something valuable this week that I would like to share it with you. But first, a little reflection on something I wrote last week, because it's connected to what I learned this week.

In a recent post on my blog I wrote about "How to respond to those we love when they are in pain." I've had a few people thank me for the words I suggested because they don't always know what to say to someone who's suffering.

In this same vein, I also recently watched a Dateline episode about newscaster Tom Brokaw, who shared his experience and what he learned through his recent battle with cancer. One thing he found upsetting was how people responded to him as he suffered with his disease. He said no one could empathize unless they'd also had cancer. I think what he was trying to say was that he felt people didn't understand what he was going through during his incredible challenge with the disease. I believe that he may have experienced people "trying to make someone feel better when they are suffering," which ultimately made him feel as if people did not understand what he was going through.