I think gender queer or gender fluid would have been a better word choice here. Why use a negative word (nonconfirming)? I appreciate the thought though.

— Courtney Patterson (@CourtOfDisaster) November 20, 2020

Before your post, I never even thought of non-conforming as negative but now I can't believe I didn't. As if one conforms and one doesn't. Thank you

— Shell Jacobson (@ShellJacobson) November 20, 2020