The APA's
Division 51 (Men and Masculinities) recently released their
guidelines for working with men and boys. While guidelines on this topic are much needed, the APA's contribution leaves room for improvement. In this article I will outline issues with two of their 10 guidelines:
Guideline 1 of the APA guidelines suggests that "masculinities are constructed based on social, cultural and contextual norms". However although it is true that masculinity is, in part, constructed, it is also partly innate.
What is the evidence that masculinity is, in part, innate? Well,
sex differences in cognition and behaviour are found worldwide, and
their universality suggests something that transcends culture. Moreover, most of these clearly map onto masculinity. For example, the tendency to being more competitive, aggressive (physically), and interested in sports than women maps onto the
male gender script of being
a fighter and winner. The tendency to working longer hours, working in male-typical occupations, exploring the environment, more willing to take risks, maps onto the male gender script of being
provider and protector. The tendency to show less fear, less crying, more inclined to substance abuse (self-medication) maps onto the male gender script of having
mastery &control of one's emotions. The crucial point for therapy is that because some aspects of masculinity are innate,
changing them is not a simple case of cognitive restructuring or behaviour change, any more than changing other deeply-held aspects of gender identity or sexual identity is straightforward or even desirable.
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