© Credit Matt Roth for The New York TimesHouston Coach Tom Herman kissing wide receiver Isaiah Johnson before a game. Any player who scores a touchdown must hug an offensive lineman.
ANNAPOLIS, Md. — When the
University of Houston's football players arrive for a game, they know what to expect as a prelude to the coming hours of brutality as they file into the stadium: a kiss on the cheek from their head coach, Tom Herman.
It is an unusual ritual in a sport that embodies America's most rigid ideals of manhood.
"A kiss on the cheek is when he shows his love for us," Houston safety Garrett Davis said, adding, "No one here is thinking, 'Oh, I shouldn't let him kiss me.'"
Physical expressions of affection certainly exist in big-time sports. Nothing says "Good job!" in baseball like a firm pat on the behind from a coach, and in international soccer it is
not uncommon to see teammates peck each other on the cheek
after a big play.
But kisses in football's gladiatorial culture seem as incongruous as a Gatorade shower at the ballet.
For Herman, 41, there is no better way to demand the painful sacrifices of the game than to forthrightly convey his affection for his players.
"How do you motivate a human being to do things against his own nature?" Herman said in an interview. "There's two things: love and fear. And to me, love wins every time."
Comment: Marriage as any kind of institution was eroded and bastardized long ago. Protesting against a law that enfranchises homosexuals into something little more than a modern cultural affectation seems like futzing over the deck chairs on the Titanic. If anything, figuring out who pays the alimony and child support will provide some entertainment. If they really didn't like homosexuals; you'd think the protesters would support homosexuals' lemming-like queuing up to lose half their assets